I feel like my SIL is constantly in competition with me about our kids. It's very upsetting to the point I don't even want to be around her and my nephew bc she is manipulative and jealous. She's had a history of premature labor (had her son at 26 weeks) and a few miscarriages since trying to have another baby bc we were having one. Now we've had our second baby and she's pregnant all of the sudden...I just don't feel like it's genuine and she's trying to constantly have the attention on her and her family and kind of stealing my thunder ... It's so sad to feel like you can't enjoy being around your family bc they make just living life a competition.. It's not about who has the best dressed kids, or who's kid is better at sports, or her goal is to "bring the first granddaughter into the fanily" at times I feel like I can't enjoy my family bc she's always trying to make her family look better... It makes my stomach sick 😒😔