So I was talking to one of my teachers and I really look up to him because I believe he is a very wise guy. Basically I asked him about being in love. He said you know your in love when you see that person with someone and it rips you to pieces. I had always thought that when you're in love that jealousy was was it fully involved involved. That you had the confidence and your secure because you know you are in love. And you know that person wouldnt try to cheat or hurt you. I thought that at that point you would be mature enough and able to handle any type of emotion because you were in love and you knew that person for so long and you know actions and you trusted them. But he also said that you know you love someone when you look at them and he loves that they were looking at you too cuz I told him it all sounds like infatuation and lust but I wanted to get my research and I wanted to make sure.