Your opinion??

So I recently found out I had a miscarriage. I was 12 1/2 weeks along. My best friend was texting me saying how she wishes she would just lose her baby (her boyfriend isn't being supportive) she stated that she wishes she was me and lost her baby because she doesn't want to lose her asshole of a boyfriend who abuses and uses her like no other. Should she have said that to someone who just miscarried?!