Your opinion??

So I recently found out I had a miscarriage. I was 12 1/2 weeks along. My best friend was texting me saying how she wishes she would just lose her baby (her boyfriend isn't being supportive) she stated that she wishes she was me and lost her baby because she doesn't want to lose her asshole of a boyfriend who abuses and uses her like no other. Should she have said that to someone who just miscarried?! 
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Thanks guys. Like I understand it's her opinion but I've been trying for 3 years now. Finally did invitro and it worked but woke up around 3 am bleeding and went to the ER. I've been wanting a baby for the longest time. My SO and I just got our foster care licenses though. I'm really hoping that they will find out why I've had 3 miscarriages... 

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No. That is the worst especially if you really wanted your baby. I loved my baby since forever and it broke my heart and crushed me when I lost my baby. My sister had said something too like that how if she got pregnant she would be relieved if she lost the baby. I just didn't really say anything back to her. I would do anything to have my baby back.

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Laura • May 23, 2016
It's got to be rough for you! I would try to explain how you feel to her, she may not know how much it's upsetting you xx

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Absolutely not!! How insensitive! Tell her how that comment made u feel! I went through a similar situation with my so cousin, we were close and she knew we were trying and anyway she caught accidentally before I did and she kept moaning about the babies dad to me and so, wasn't taking care of herself and eventually terminated the pregnancy at 16 weeks, we don't speak anymore it's very hurtful when someone does that to you xx

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OMG noooo way! That's not appropriate at all. Honestly I probably would have went off on her so hard. To put it bluntly she is so fucked up for saying that to you. 😠I'm sorry for your loss hunny.