Single for 2 years...

So, I've been single for 2 years and I can't seem to find a connection with a man, i lose interest quick.

I was in a long term relationship for about 7 years and he was abusive to me. Men and women find me attractive, outgoing and consider me as someone they can talk too. I don't go out much because some of my friends have bf's and I never made friends back in h.s, or after.

What's going on with me? Help me figure this one out... sometimes I feel lonely lol.