First off, my fiance and I have been ttc for over a year now...

In an argument with my fiance Saturday night he made the comment "at least she can have babies". He knows how much I want to have a baby and how much I cry every month that I start my period. He knows that I feel like a failure because I haven't had any luck becoming a mother. How could someone say something so hurtful to someone they love? No matter how mad you are at them in the moment. I told him that I would never forgive him and in my heart I know that I won't ever fully be able to, especially if I'm never able to have a baby. To top it off he said it on the day that I started my period and I was already super depressed all day. I don't know how to get over what he said to me. And I don't know what it means for our relationship that he finds it okay to try to hurt me so deeply just because we were having an argument. I no longer want to ttc or ever even talk about babies with him ever again.

It's been two days now and even though I am trying to forgive him and trying to move passed it I'm quiet and distant and he knows he really messed up. I just can't stop hearing his words and it's not just the words but the hateful way that he said the words too.

How would you handle something like this? I'm just so hurt and lost in my pain.