So my boyfriend and I have been together for a really long time, he's super kind and respectful and would never pressure me into anything. We've done pretty much all sexual things except actual Penetration.. We've come close to it like twice but as soon as he sorta starts to go in it hurts like hell and we stop.. What was it like for you? Will it hurt for a few minutes and then be pleasurable? Or is the first time just going to suck?