im 16 and ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now (hes my first serious bf)

i think im ready to give it to him after holding it in for so long and being scared

i think hes the one

i know all the dangers and im going to take all the precautions

i DO plan on telling my mom but not yet

because i feel like she would react badly if i told her rn

am i doing the right thing?