Ttc...ish?

Okay so hubby and I aren't necessarily trying but not preventing either. I'm ready to start like REALLY trying but he's like just let it do its thing babe it'll come when it happens. Is it wrong to do still do things to increase the odds? Like preseed and <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">tracking ovulation</a> hard core and what not?