Feeling like a failure 😢

So today was my due date, and I just got sent home again for prodromal labor with no progress. I've been 2cm 60% for about 3 weeks, and having false labor for 5. I am really starting to feel like I'm doing something wrong. First I failed at getting pregnant, taking almost 2 years to conceive our first pregnancy. I failed at being pregnant when I lost that pregnancy at 5 weeks. I was and am so excited for this pregnancy and the fact that we made it to term, but now I feel like I'm failing this time too, why can't something just give so I don't feel like I'm doing everything wrong? Sorry about the rant, super emotional right now 😔