What do I do?

Question

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while and I love him but we haven't had sex in like 3 months and he's starting to think all I want him for. that is not true so I set the sex aside. But I have needs 😫

Answer

Besides what most people think,men don't want sex all the time. Me and my boyfriend rarely have sex. We replaced our sex with affection.

No he's probably not getting it anywhere else but if your constantly asking for sex or pushing it on him of course that's all he is gonna think you want. Also, maybe you asking and everything is turning him off.he wants to bet he one to come onto you. Stress and stuff can mess with his libido.

Try making him dinner and cuddling and watching a movie don't mention sex don't try and have sex just lay there together cuddled up watching a movie. See if he trys to have sex.either way try not asking for it and everything.

Just relax and use communication.

I'm sorry my boy friend and me rarely have sex and he's not getting it anywhere else.

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As stated above, maybe one night you could just try to be affectionate, have long conversation, just focus on him. I have your same exact problem, I want sex way more that he does lol. But we should feel lucky that they are mature and atypical guys... Anyway when I focus on just being affectionate and his best friend and try to resist just sexual things, I find that those are the times where he initiates sex! They appreciate you focusing on the non physical things, and that makes them even more attracted to you, which could lead to physical things 😂 love is cray
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Tina

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I do think three months is pushing it haha , just explain to him that you do love him etc but you have sexual needs just like anyone else does , just tease him , wear sexy outfits , wind him up ;)

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How long have you been together? He's being selfish, and was it different in the beginning?

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