Can a relationship work with a guy who has slept with a good friend of yours?

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Before you were together?

Also please tell me about how it worked for you if this has been your situation.

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I live in a small town. I went to high school with my now-bf (we didn't start dating until we were 21) but he was a sporty type and I was a geek so our paths didn't often cross and we hardly spoke.

But, he was also a player, and in high school he hooked up with two of my good friends - no sex, just fooling around, but he did have sex with a few of my acquaintances from high school. It did kind of bug me when I started dating him, but we're adults now. That was years ago when he was just a horny teenager trying to get with anything that moved.

So, I don't judge him and I don't let it bother me. Now I just mostly think it's funny! Lol.

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I live on an island that's 30 miles long so it's so hard to find someone in the same age group that hasn't been with one of your friends, my boyfriend who I've been with since I was 13 slept with two of my friends before me, unless your friends have a problem with it I don't see a problem with it in fact my best friend is going out with my ex boyfriend and I don't give a fuck

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I think it depends on how long ago ot happened, what their relationship was like, how it ended, and how both of them feel about on another now. 
It could cause a little bit of friction, but so long as everyone acts like grown ups, I don't see why it couldn't work.

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I think it can work as long as the first relationship was casual. Like a one night stand type of thing.

There are guys I've slept with who I would have a problem with my friends dating, and guys who I wouldn't care at all if they started dating one of my friends!

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I think it all depends on the situation, like what sort of a guy he is, if they just slept together or if there was feelings, that sort of thing

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Things happen in the past especially in a small town. My husband slept with my best friend way before we were married tho.

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Never happened to me but it just depends on the people involved. Personally it would make me uncomfortable. But it's different for everyone

Can a relationship work with a guy who has slept with a good friend of yours?

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