Ugly vagina?

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I have quite large labia and it makes me really insecure! I find it quite unattractive and I'm only 19. Because I feel like all the vaginas I see in porn and stuff all the girls have small labia. Almost non-exsistent. Anyone else have large labia? Also.. I have quite a hairy butt and I hate that I can't control what I was born with. Honestly, I am quite an attractive girl and lots of guys want me but only a few have actually had me because I'm so insecure of my vagina and butt.

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Don't compare yourself to porn. Nothing about it is realistic ESPECIALLY most of the vaginas. Everyone's is different, it's nothing to be ashamed of

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omg babe, I feel the same way. I'm so self conscious about everything that you mentioned. I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that everything we see on media isn't 100% real, and everyone has different bodies and there's nothing ugly about any of them. it's so tough, but I'm right here with you

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I'm the same, but no man I've ever been with has mentioned it. They don't really care. And I learned not to be bothered by it either. It's just another thing that uniquely makes me, well, me :)

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Mine is much larger than girls in porn and I have hated it most of my life, but anyone I have every been with hasn't said anything and I even asked my boyfriend, who said that "it's a vagina I don't really care what it looks like" but he loves the damn thing, don't feel bad! It's completely normal and a lot of girls have it!

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Ummm I've seen some messes of vaginas in porn. I can give you names if it'd make you feel more secure. Lol.

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Read the book "I'll show you mine" it's a book about vaginas and stories about the way girls feel about them.

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I have a big labia as well, and i sometimes get very insecure about it. But then i remind myself that every vagina is different and beautiful in their own special way just like people. Its totally normal, love. You just gotta learn to love what you've got and rock it.

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I'm also really self conscious! mine are big too, it's noticeable when I wear bathing suits I feel like.. but my bf doesn't seem to care and I've grown to get used to it. I used to compare myself to models, but I can't change it :/ so why worry about it

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Girl no one notices but you I promise! One of mine is slightly, but also visibly, larger than the other so do not fret!

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You're not the only one Hun! I'm in the same boat. I'm very insecure about it too, but I try not to let it bother me.

Ugly vagina?

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