Blow Job tips???

Question

Ok so I'm 20 and have only ever given head when I was drunk with one night stands. I finally sound someone I truly like and have a sexual relationship with but I've never blown him simply because I'm scared I won't be good at it since I forget how to. He always asks me why don't you do it for me? Not in a rude way just in kind of a hurt way and I honestly don't know what to say!!! What do I do to feel more conform table and does anyone have some tips??

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The imprortant thing is to make sure you are enjoying this act of lovemaking as much as he is. Not only will that be insanely sexy to him, but it will make for intense intimacy. Play with the rhythms and pacing. Build him up to the edge, then bring it back down by slowing the pace again. You will have him moaning and begging as he gets lost in the sensations and headspace you create. (It can be pretty erotic, actually.) And if you find your neck or jaw are getting tired, then alternate with your hands and fingers for a while. (If he is "well endowed" or if you have a gagging issue, your hand can become your mouth's best friend during oral by taking care of the lower half of the shaft.) Additionally, the inner thighs and testicles are both sensitive and erogenous areas which respond well to licking, kissing, and gentle stroking.

The more you do it, the more you will learn what gets him there the fastest, and what works for you both. The most important thing to remember is that you both have fun. It should be an act of lovemaking, not a chore. :)

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Enthusiasm goes a long way, as does communication. Just like a guy isnt going to know how to hit all the right buttons on you the first time, it helps to ask questions or to suggestively ask him to show you how he touches himself. That will show you whether he focuses on the head, the shaft, the base, or all over. You can use that knowledge to direct where your focus should be.

Secondly, it should be as fun for you as it is for him. Bobbing your head up and down as fast as you can may be what they show in pornos, but that gets old fast. Take your time like you would want him to take his time on you. Exploring him with everything you have: mouth, lips, tongue, hands, fingers, even the tip of your nose and your teeth can be incorporated by a gentle grazing along the length of the shaft. Sucking and bobbing alone will wear out your neck and jaw like crazy, and could lead to chronic pain afterward. However, tongues can be used for licking, swirling and teasing. Lips can be used for stroking and kissing. As I mentioned, some guys (not all) like a slow, gentle graze of the teeth along the shaft or over the tip of the head. (I can't stress the term gentle enough! Unless you *know* he is into pain, be tender down there!) And if you are into kitty or puppy roleplay, nuzzling his cock or grazing the edge of your nose along the shaft amidst a series of slow licks can be fairly erotic too.

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Use your hand as a second mouth and play around with different hand and mouth movements and see how he reacts

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Practice practice practice! If he loves you he wont care if its good or not youre going down on him fgs!

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