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Need some thoughts on bf and porn.

Last night I decided to have a girls night with some friends, so I stayed with them and bf was home alone. I came home this morning (he's at work) and noticed a dried and sticky papertowel in the room by the bed. Am I totally jumping to assumptions that he watched porn and finished in a paper towel? He always cleans up with a bath towel after sex. Porn makes me feel so insecure and I hate to think he's watching it but I did leave him kind of turned on, because I had to get going. This is the second time, last time he said he was blowing his nose. Idk I just have a hard time believing it. I'm being insecure. :/
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Me

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WHO CARES IF HE WATCHES PORN? He's a human. He's allowed to do that. 

G

G • May 31, 2016
She cares. Everyone has their own feelings.

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People masterbate it's completely normal and you shouldn't get mad at him or question him about dried paper towels that's crazy. Your assuming he's watching porn if he was who cares. Let the man be. 

Ni

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Why is it a problem if he's watching porn? Everyone does it. It's not cheating. Even I watch it when I'm horny and my boyfriend isn't home 😂 I'd rather my boyfriend watch porn when he's turned on and I'm not home than him getting pleasure from another girl physically.

Kr

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It's so sad to me that so many women are insecure about men watching porn. If he ever becomes more interested in porn that he is in you then you have much bigger problems with your relationship/ marriage. My husband frequently watches porn and so do I but at the end of the day we are the ultimate prize to each other. Porn never has and never will compare to the enjoyment we have with each other. 

VH

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You said it yourself, you're insecure. People masturbate. You can't control that.

Mo

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Well, first of all how do you know he was watching porn? Maybe he was just masturbating. I think your mind is going a little wild at the moment. Nothing he did while you were gone is hurting you in anyway. You found a sticky paper towel… Big deal!

Mo

Mo • May 31, 2016
For me, porn is not enough to come between me and my man.

Mo

Mo • May 31, 2016
Also, you are assuming, and assumptions are not reality-based. Assumptions are based on what you think. And what you think, isn't always true or correct.

Er

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It's just porn sweetie. Idk if you've ever watched porn, but most of those women aren't super models. They aren't ugly but they aren't Victoria's Secreg models either. It's totally normal. And you should take it as a compliment.... He missed you. But I don't think it's a big deal. 

Ba

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You may get mixed opinions on this one. I am like you, due to an abusive past and also people cheating on me, porn makes me very insecure. Me and my husband have good communication and he doesn't watch it, he feels like he doesn't need to as he has me. I would say talk to him about it and express your feelings on it and how it makes you feel, and listen to him as well I'm sure he's embarrassed by it. Communication is the best thing in relationships. Good luck anyway x

Br

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Nothing wrong with watching porn. Me and my boyfriend watch it together sometimes. Maybe try that?
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