He's left me!!!!!

So me and partner are going through a bad patch we have to children together and we have been arguing over the fact he's on iPad constantly or asleep when I say asleep I mean through out the day he will just sleep and when he's awake he has he iPad glued to he's face! He hasn't had work for the last 2 weeks and not once has he said lets do something as a family or I'll take our boy to school or pick him up! So last night we was speaking and said he's making me unhappy I just want him to show me some attention and do little things with us like come to te park when I take the children or come to bed with me of an evening so we can intimate and just leave the iPad alone for a bit! He's answer to me was maybe I'm not ready to be your boyfriend!!! Bearing in mind we have been together 6years! And that he wasn't willing to change who he was for me! I said I wasn't asking him to change who he was o was asking him to take more time for he's family and make me feel more like he's women then just the mother to he's children! He's said he can't do that and turned it back onto me how he can't make me happy and there's no point with conversation and he's now gone!!! I feel heart broken