So, I won't go into details. My husband cannot have intercourse with me anymore. Combat injury. He thinks it's dirty to use toys. He gets angry if I masterbate.

I'm dying here. Is it me or is he being selfish. Just because he can't dosent mean I cant. And yes before someone jumps down my throat, I have tried to still service him sexually in other way. He is not interrested.

I'm not the type to cheat but I'm about to buy me some toys rather he likes it or not!

It's been 11 months.

What would you do?

Edit:

Tea isn't going to fix his problem. It's a penile partial amputation.