husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a long time now. but lately he's been "too tired" to have sex, even if I say I'll just do the work. we're in agreement that we want to have a baby... or are we? he says yes but his actions are opposite. I try and try to have sex or to get him to want to but it seems impossible. I tried earlier tonight to get him in the mood before we went into bed. he turned me down because he's tired. then we get into bed and he stays awake for another hour just on his phone. I don't say anything because at this point I feel like I'm pressuring him or annoying him. we literally could've had sex before going to sleep. so I've been quiet while laying here because I'm sad and I feel like he doesn't even want to have a baby. felt like we were in agreement but now I don't even know anymore. all I ever wanted is to be a mom and he knew this marrying me. he knew it was my biggest goal. he knows how important it is to me. so now I'm laying here while he's sleeping trying to hold back tears so I don't wake him. he asked what was wrong right before he went to sleep and I said we could talk about it later because he clearly wants to go to sleep now. he said fine whatever and rolled over. I'm just sad. really sad. I just needed to vent I don't know if I even need advice or anything. but I didn't have anyone to talk to so here I am. :(