Going on 18 weeks & still haven't announced

Anyone else holding back on the news?

My husband and I are first time parents and after a miscarriage (and not telling anyone then either...) we are just not comfortable telling anyone yet.

Both my family and his live 5 states and hundreds of miles away (and I don't get along with his family at all) and we aren't very "broadcasty" kind of people, it's hard to explain but we just don't feel comfortable when people get all mushy/ooey gooey on us.

We're considering telling our families after 20 weeks but only if we feel comfortable. We don't plan on any social media announcements at all.

Wondering if anyone else is waiting longer than typically expected.