Ugh help

Today was awful I shaved everything and wore matching bras and panties me and my boyfriend were about to have sex but the condom didn't fit so we stopped and then a couple hours later we tried again but I'm really right and we needed lube so got off of me to try and find it and when he found it he wasn't hard so we stopped and then thirty minutes later we tried again and he couldn't freaking get his dick inside should sex be this complicated