I need to vent maybe someone can relate to how I feel....

I feel so unappreciated as a woman, as a mother, and as a girlfriend, why is it that a woman can bust her ass off to make sure the house is not a wreck that my family has clean clothes on their back and a hot meal in their mouth but everyone overlooks all of that. A man goes to work and they demand everything at their fingertips because they're tired cause they WORK! I was cooking for 2 fucking hours last night and did anyone give a fuck noooo my kids said they didn't like it and my man barely ate 2 bites cause they bbq'ed at his work (which he already knew I had food cooking) i made chinese and it was delicious!!!!! Being a SAHM sucks cause people just run over you and are ungrateful cause they say well it's your job to clean and cook. ... which it is, I'm not necessarily complaining about that I just wish someone would recognize all that I do, like I would love for someone to be like wow the house looks nice or this food is great or shit tell me I love you for all you do. I just feel like the live in maid instead of a loved mother and gf