That we are officially on the list of Infertility couples, with no testing even done, because we've been trying for over 12 months we are automatically categorized as infertile. People say dont focus on having a baby, itll just happen, yet the doctors and friends ask; are you tracking your ovulation? Are you using OPK sticks? Ummm isnt that putting pressure and focusing? Annoyed to the point were I'm not sure I want to have testing done and if I never get to be a mother so be it. And last but not least, dont tell me I am infertile or that my husband is until you have actual proof that something is wrong.