Scared.

Vicca • 💗 11/23/10 💗3/14/17 💗4/27/19
Me and so have been ttc actively for awhile now, and still nothing. That's not what bothers me the most, the other night we got into a fight because I wanted sex and he turned me down. I asked him how we are supposed to have a baby if we arnt having sex. (It had been about a week). And he told me that he's trying and he can't get me pregnant and maybe we should quit trying. We fought for awhile and then we made up and dtd. But since he said that I'm scared as all hell that because we haven't gotten pregnant it's going to put to much strain on our relationship and break us. I like to think nothing can break us but he really wants more kids, and what if I can't have anymore? I'm worried it's an issue with me and he will leave. I want more kids but if I can't have them I'm going to be okay, and if I couldn't have them because he has an issue I would never leave him over it. We haven't fought about it since that night and last night he said he didn't want to so I was trying to go to sleep and he ended up wanting to. I kinda want to quit actively trying, just keep taking my prenatals and just dtd whenever and if it happens then great, if not okay. I don't know how to bring it up to him though. Any ideas ladies?