Well today at work some one came in and decided to talk to my dad I work for him and they guy looking for him works as a trucker transportation so he talks about dying and being in coma . He says he is diebetic and all and lost a toe. Well he decides to give a huge lecture on A1C basically your sugar . I could not remember because I went to the doctors and they told me I was fine when I had mc in March . So now me being pregnant I recently did it but I did not like my number so I am reducing my sugar intake and among other things . So they attack my sister she has thyroid problems and takes medication but , he decided to go on a rant on her and then on me so I say hey I have done it and I have come out fine n so he diced to ask for my number I said no I don't remember he says I am suppose to check every 3 months or so he stated . My sister gets checked every darn month because of her thyroid . She has always had trouble with weight . I lost weight but gained it and I ended up loosing a few pounds when I lost the baby . I told him look sorry for not being perfect how you want me to be but I also take other medication that makes me retain water and gain weight . I did not tell him I am ADHD because I do not know the guy . My medication is bad gets me depressed makes me over eat or it starves me . I am on a rant here I understand he went through that but that doesn't mean you get to judge just because my dad gave you the green light . You don't know the countless times my sister has tried to loose weight but nothing only a few pounds . I can loose weight if I dedicate my self but also I am running rhe risk of loosing this baby so I am trying to get clearance so I can work out I want this baby healthy . Now I am mad and it irritates me that just because you have gone through a nearly death experience does not mean you have a license to judge others  think before you do. You don't know how many times that person has tried to loose weight or is pregnant and has had to bee in bed rest because of risk of loosing your second pregnancy . Seriously I wanted to go off on him but my education has thought me something not to even bother explaing it to them because they have closed their minds already and believe that they are right sorry for the long rant but I am trying especially with my condition right now