My family has always had a difficult time together. But it has never been so bad. My mom waited until I am almost 19 to divorce my dad. She finally got a job again, but hasn't been paid yet. She basically has nothing in her name. She uses all of my dads money. He works hard everyday to make us money to pay for himself, my mother, my brother, my sister, and I. My brother is 22 and has been paying for himself mostly except for any rent or anything. But he pays all his own bills. My sister is 20 doesn't have a job and goes to the hospital when she freaks out about a problem shes having. My family is at the point where we don't know how to believe her. Neither do doctors. So if she really is having a problem, no one knows what to do about it. I am only going on 19 in 12 days and am not financially stable to live alone yet. Or pay my own bills. Considering I am saving up for my own car, then I'm saving for an apartment. My parents know and understand this. I work often, so I make a good amount of money, but majority of it goes to my savings because I want to move out quick. My mom is really bad about keeping a job so I don't know how she plans to live alone. She filled for divorce and got a lawyer for herself. My dad got served yesturday. He freaked out because now how is he supposed to buy himself a lawyer. It's unfair to him. Then again my dad works from home and hasn't done much getting out of the house and gets too stressed out to even handle finances, so that's why my mom has been in charge of that. I don't agree with it, but that's how it's been. My dad is freaking out over money and is really depressed. I don't know what to do. I'm so scared that someone is going to hurt themselves over the depression. And it's just so negative in this house that its not safe for anyone. We are all so sad and mad. Its just bad all around. My family had a huge fight this morning. I don't know how I'm going to be able to work today. I don't know what to do at this point. Can anyone give advice or anything? I'm so scared.