I come from a very traditional family and so does my husband. All of our siblings have gotten pregnant right away and without difficulty. The other day we were at a family gathering and my sister told me that if I need medication to get pregnant, maybe I wasn't meant to have kids. That if it was meant to be God would have made it easy. As hubby and I move on to month 15 trying (due to start medication next month) I can't help but think that maybe they are right, that it isn't in the cards for us....and we are just forcing something.