Honest opinion

My father is not well , he will need to get operated anytime . I have not met my parents from past 3 years as I thought they will come for my delivery but coz of dad's sudden illness , they are not coming . I cannot go as I am
29 weeks . Not a day passes by when I speak to my mom and get any good news that he is doing any better . So in midst of all this , I decided not to have any celebration like baby shower as I felt it incomplete with dad not well . No one understands it  tell me honestly am I wrong ?  Am I stupid to think I should not?