Teen pregnancy

I just HATE when people ask for my age and start telling me that I ruined my life.. I was at a restaurant and a lady probably in her 30's asked me how far was I and my age I told her the truth I'm 16 and one month and a half and she started telling me how I ruined my life and my baby and I would have a miserable future. It really bothers me it was not the 1st time it happened and nicely I asked her why?.. An she started telling me how I'm not going be able to go out with my friends or to dance with my boyfriend. And my answer to that is before I was pregnant I was doing all that and it was taking me anywhere. I would party every weekend drink and sometimes tried different drugs. All of my money would go on partying. I am Glad I'm pregnant it made me realize that I have a bright future and I was throwing it away to party and have "fun" I'm graduating early from high school then start college I'm about to get married my boyfriend is an amazing guy works and studies I'm financially stable I don't have everything but I have what I need I just hate how people are to quick to judge but don't even know the situation I'm blessed for realizing on time maybe not the right way but I'm glad it happened this way!