Negative right?

These are both negative aren't they? I'm late but nothing... When do you count your period start date from? Last month I spotted for three days before getting a proper flow and I recorded my period as starting on the first day of spotting, so maybe my entire fertile window was out? I BD everyday for the first two weeks (cd10-cd21) after my period stopped just in case. So according to glow my period is due today, no sign. Perhaps it's due later... I'm so confused. Why can't ttc just be as simple as have sex on day 14, get pregnant. I'm so stressed and depressed. I cry at every negative test. My husband thinks I'm insane.