My husband and i recently had a miscarriage at the end of April. It obviously was an emotional thing to go thru after trying for so long. The problem now is trying again. But i cant seem to get in the mood to have sex. He says he understands but sometimes he says things that makes me feel like he doesnt.. I understand that he is a man and he has "needs" but dont we all?

So what do i do to try to get back in the mood. And what can i do so that he doesnt feel so neglected?