Relationship with so

How has your relationship with your partner been since baby? Both my partner and i are stuborn strong minded people so naturally we argue a lot. Since baby we have gotten so much closer...like only 2 fights which is great. He's been so helpful with cooking and cleaning, and being understanding. And somehow my patience and understanding has increased too...idk its odd they say newborns can be hard on a relationship but i am grateful its helped ours a lot.