Not dilated

I'll be 37 weeks in 2 days. I keep seeing all these women saying they're already dilating. I had an OB appointment today. Not dilated whatsoever.  No sign of my little man coming anytime soon. Obviously I know he will come when he's ready and obviously I don't want him to come early and have problems he might not have otherwise had, but there was a small part of me (probably the uncomfortable and  crabby part of me lol) that was hoping for sign that he would be here soon.