So I had a horrible labor and delivery and due to severe tears I procrastinated on getting back into the swing of things with my fiancé. So much that my son is 13 weeks old! I was scared it would hurt or not feel good for me or him but all and all the closeness was missed by both of us. What an amazing man for not pushing me to have sex sooner. He respected my feelings until I was ready and it was pretty amazing. Just wanted to say what a great daddy and loving fiancé. I'm glad I waited until I felt "healed". It took a long time but I'm glad I didn't rush it.