My husband can't spend one night in with just me!

These were the messages between my husband & myself earlier today. We had planned on seeing a movie, but decided against it. I've had a week from hell with work. Plus, all the hustle & bustle of having an 8 year old as well as a house to run & honestly just wanted to stay home one Friday night. He agreed, obviously stating we always do what he wants to do i.e. going to this person or that persons house drinking and playing cards. In this case drinking & fishing. Fast forward to now he won't even speak to me. He asked me right before I left work if we could go to my sister's (Jaci) house, even had her blowing me up and begging for us to come over, but I'm exhausted. My son is at his fathers (previous marriage) for the weekend & I just want to spend the night in with my husband, but he can't. He never can! Always has to be in a social gathering getting drunk! & don't get me wrong my husband works his ass off almost 60 hours a week and he likes to unwind, but I can't do it every weekend. I don't know if it's me and I'm boring. Idk!! I know we haven't had a Friday or Saturday night at home in over 4 months. It gets exhausting. Idk know what to do. Am I being a baby? I told him to go without me, but he won't. Should I just go even though I'll be miserable or stay home and be ignored all night. Sorry this was so long. I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!