Does anyone else have in-laws that treat their husband bad? I have been with my husband for 15years now (married 7) and I told myself in the beginning that they will get closer the older they get but no! My in laws are super content with how they treat him and now that we have a 5 year old they are treating her the same way. They claim (all of them) that they are just living their lives but due to Instagram and Facebook we can see that they( his brothers) are only content in making memories with their kids only and exclude us from everything. We have reached out only to get the bare minimum. We have liked, commented on our nieces photos only to get just likes on our daughters nothing more. About 5 years ago I deleted my brother in laws from my pages only to get the rudest emails asking why. When I explained that I didn't like that they only wanted an online relationship with us and we wanted a real one I was told I was a passive aggressive bitch! I've always had to bend over backwards and babysit one brother's child all the time only to be treated rudely all the time and him not acknowledging my daughter at all. When he does its for show, like to show his mom he has no issues with her but they don't call us to camp, to visit, they come to my town and not one "hey let's have dinner" nothing. The other brother is all on his terms we invite them to go places everytime we go to town and it's always, ALWAYS no! To everything! The only place we go and see them is at their house only, or the family office. That's it!  His mom has complained recently that she never gets to have a relationship with my daughter and that she "pays" so my mother can play. She tells my husband this all the time. So I told my husband that she is old enough for them to come and pick her up and spend a week with her grandparents just like I did. We have had bad weather this past week but no hey we are going to get her this week or next just nothing. When my oldest niece had to be picked up they drove through thunderstorms all kinds of bad weather to get her or to bring her home from the time she was 3-16 and it's like I have to beg them to be grandparents, but his mom guilts my husband to the ground. They have lived 2 hrs away and no visits even when my mom was overseas they would never visit my daughter if I asked them to hold her my mother in law would get all nervous and my father in law would just say no. I have 2 new nieces since the 2 brothers wives decided to get pregnant together😒 and my mother in law has watched and taken care of one since she was born and has visited the other on a regular basis. Because she said she has learned her lesson from not doing it with my daughter. My husband gets mad that now that I live in the same town as my family and my mom and my daughter has formed a bond with them and not his he tries to limit how much my daughter sees them which I tell him is unfair since they want to be a part of her life. His mom has to be told to talk to my daughter or to face time. My husband literally has to track her down and get her to talk to my daughter and tells us we shouldn't force my daughter to talk to her😒. I'm pregnant with a boy right now and his mom has literally taken the thrill of this pregnancy away from me. I wanted to do a gender reveal she delayed our paychecks, we told her not tell his brothers we were expecting and she did, she wanted to be the first to find out and I told her no so she went to my husband and cried and he told her, I told my husband that I wanted to wait to tell them the name of our son cause I wanted to tell them with my mom there too and she demanded that my husband tell her. I'm sooooo miserable with this entire family that I can literally say I hate them and their bullshit! I can't vent to my husband cause he doesn't want to hear it or fight with them about it! I hate that they treat my kids this way and the way my sister in laws manipulate conversations with me and then go and hang out and talk to each other about it and then don't call or include me or my kid who wants to see her cousins. I tell my husband his family isn't right to which he attacks my family instead.  I'm miserable right now and can't take any more of this bs non existent issues they have with my husband and now us. Any advice would be appreciated 😉