He compared "me" to her
My husband and I have been together for 5 years, the first 3 years were great-Neither of us had children, but both REALLY wanted one, but agreed that the timing wasn't right. We wanted to be married and a little more financially secure and done with college. We had a big talk about starting a family, and a few days later he told me that it was time to stop taking birth control (since my OB recommend coming off it a year in advance). I was beyond thrilled! About a week later a very pregnant lady knocks on my door, and let's me know that my husband not only cheated but had a baby on the way. I was devastated to say the very least.
We ended up separating for 3 months, he was there for the birth and they stayed together for a month after. They obviously are not going to work, now or never. So needless to say we are back together. She now has a new boyfriend though I can tell it bothers him. I asked him about it and he proceeded to tell me that it was just the sex that he missed with her.
This is a man that I am CRAZY in love with. I do and have always done everything for him since the start. Cooking, cleaning, shopping, decorating, managing his and our finances, picking out his family's birthday/Christmas presents ext. Yet he says the only thing he would change about me would be to have sex like her. Should this bother me as much as it is?
I have never turned him down, not once. He always gets his, though I definitely do not. I would try anything that he asked me so I'm really confused and annoyed by this.
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