Wwyd if a woman addresses your husband but not you?
So I'm African American and my husband is Native American, but people always mistake him as being Puerto Rican. Everywhere we go (in public) we either get the cold stares or the sexual stares (as in women eyeing his every move). One time we were at a festival, and one girl (about 23/24 maybe) made it her business to leave her stand (she was selling items for kids) and discuss her products with my husband but not me and I'm standing next to him with our child. Not once did she look at me and even asked for his number. I didn't say anything, just looked at him to see how he would respond, and he told me to give the girl my number if she wanted to stay in touch. Smart move! B/c I was ready to pop off and punch her dead in her face at any given moment! Another time we were in Walmart, except this time we split up and went down separate aisles. This girl who I had already noticed eyeing him, decided to wait until we split to address him. I just so happen to be right on the next aisle, and saw her walk down the aisle he was on but couldn't hear what they were saying. I asked him what they were talking about, and he told me she told him he was cute and tried to hand him a paper with her number on it, but he declined. Almost everywhere we go we have some type of incident with a female. I know he wouldn't cheat. He loves me and talks/brags about me all the time to his family, friends, etc. We have no pass codes on our phones, tablets, etc. But it does make me feel uncomfortable b/c I don't like being put in situations where all eyes are on him, waiting to see how he will handle or respond to the females being thrown at him. I also don't appreciate the disrespect. Its very trashy to me when other women don't care about a man being married, or if he's with his family at the moment they are trying to holla. I mean, some woman have absolutely no shame in their game!! I guess they like the idea of getting knocked the fuck out or getting carried out on a damn stretcher!! Ijs! Is there any other who deal with these type of situations? If so, how do you handle it?
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