My boyfriend tried for a bit but has fully given up, we've only been together 8 months. I had a chat with him today about how my orgasm matters and I'd like him to keep trying or at least not get exasperated when I want to masturbate after sex. Today I said to him my orgasm mattered as much as his, to which he responded that he didn't really care about his own. I have made no progress with him thinking my pleasure is important. He says my lack of orgasm is just because I'm weird and my massive labido is also weird and I need to let it go.... How do I get through to him