Okay, so every time my SO and I try to get hot and heavy it takes FOREVER. It feels like we spend eternity finding just the right angle so it doesn't cause me extreme pain. Sometimes though, we can't find the angle at all and it just doesn't happen, I dry up before we can succeed. We've tried to ignore the angle adjustment and just do it, but it just burned so much we stopped after 30 seconds.

When we find the perfect angle, everything is fine and even then it hurts a little then fades.

Anybody have any advice?