Thanks everyone, I have suggested counseling but I feel like us being here is suffocating to her. I have to take my baby and go. Hopefully she will grow out of her stage of immaturity really know what she wants from all of this, as of now the only thing we're talking about is the kids. It hurts me to be going through it but worse for my son. I will keep everyone updated on the move if it happens and the behavior. I know I am a huge parrot this and it's scary knowing I'll be by myself ! I've been so nice and so civil but I think it's hard for her to be near me,so she's withdrawing.
Sad my wife doesn't love me
Today my wife decided she wants to be divorced, that our son and I will move back to Michigan (I moved to Texas for her) where our daughter who will be born in december will also be. It's crushed me, literally physically made me hurt. I love this woman, 6 years of love and struggle. A 4 year old who loves his mommies.
So here is what I suggested, no divorce for now. I will go home, and will take myself and Ryker and focus on us and the arrival of his sibling. I will be friendly and allow her updates. I'm really trying to be civil and it's the first step in my process of being a better person for my kids.
She can visit we will share his birthday and holidays, I am hoping that in six months time, she will be straight on and realize she needs her family. And that divorce is a hard thing and a very permanent decision.
Am I wrong for being hopeful?? Or is it that I want her to see I can be a better person and do these things alone??
I could really use the advice!
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