I have a 4 month old with a man who is separated (a little over year before I met him and 2 now on and off).... His wife seriously hates me but I understand I would too. Lol well she is a major problem starter even when he left me for other girls, she would talk shit to me then turn around and say I said it.. Sent him what she actually said and she found out called me names and blocked me. Well they have a 2 year old. They get back together on and off its their normal, I guess. She is a special kind of crazy. To the point where they did get back together while he was with me, and she would tell me "keep him, I'm glad he has you" while she was living with him and allowed him to come here and stay with me 4-5 days. I didn't know until after we ended things. But when he took us to let grandparents meet baby they asked if I ever planned on letting the sisters meet. I really want to but I know with this girl it won't happen. He doesn't want to get any custody arrangements because "he works too much". She never lets him take the kid alone. Right now she's having her friends add me, changing her city to his because she found out he comes over and stays the night. Lol. She always told me "accept we are coparents" but she's being hypocritical pissed cuz he comes sees his daughter. Even when I was pregnant and he was publicly with a girl he left me for he was over talking about the baby and gave me money, she called asked what he was doing he said talking about the baby and she said fuck you and hung up. I personally could give the past up for our daughters. But she is crazy and can't.  Would it be wrong to see if the grandparents could somehow get the other daughter and have them meet that way? Or should I just forget it and when we go to court in a few years let him do it then?