I suffer from depression & my husband suffers from anxiety. We're both in pretty good places right now (& he's been out of treatment/off meds for a long time, unlike me), but occasionally we both have off days, which can be challenging. Last time it happened, my husband said, "We're not allowed to both be upset at the same time! It's my turn today, you can have tomorrow"-- which made us both start laughing hysterically. It's really great being with someone who gets how it feels & doesn't judge, & we do a good job of bringing each other up even on bad days :) [Together since 10.13.05, married since 7.26.09 <3]