This has been on my mind for awhile now...a girl at work ask a few personal questions and I opened up..but the ending conversation ended up not being my favorite.

I told her that me and my husband are trying to start a family, and that I stopped birth control in February. These were her words..."what? It's taking that long? It's so easy to get pragnant!" Says a girl who has a 4 and a 5 year old at the age if 20....

I can't believe I'm even posting this but I had to get some feedback. Because I just need a tad bit of encouragement.♡

My comment back was on the fence of respectful, but her comment still hurt.

I told her that it isn't that easy for alot of women to get pregnant and she should watch what she says to people, because words can hurt. (My tone was questionable).

Several women have asked me if I am going to see a specialist to see if there's anything wrong. I always have to pause before I answer tough questions.. I tell them that "if it takes longer than a year then we will, but I have faith in God that it will happen when it happens."

My heart is with all my gal pals out there. Praying for my family and yours ♡♡♡