So I recently got engaged to my fiancé (I call him my husband already) and I have no kids but he has two 13 year old daughters. He hasn't been in their lives all 13 yrs and he's barely trying to build a relationship with them. I'm just having problems because I try to build a relationship with them and help them out in school and help them etc but their moms always have a problem with it and say I'm not allowed to interact with them so when they come around everything changes I feel very uncomfortable because I can't show any affection towards my husband and everytime we try and talk in private his daughters show up right behind him and don't leave. Please help I need advice