Most likely no one is going to read this but I'm not trying to preach I just feel like we are all grown woman and there are women on this app who genuinely need advice and guidance so for people to make rude comments or try to speak on other women's situations. It's just not in your place to do that. They obviously are posting these things because they feel like this is a safe place to vent and get advice and they're trusting us to help them so why make things harder with negative, rude comments?