Husband sneaks out, and lies about stuff
I just got back last night from a vacation for 2 weeks visiting family. I went alone. I really missed my husband and he missed me. I had jet lag so I went to bed at 9:30. My husband didn't come to bed til around 3am even tho last night he was complaining about how totally tired he was because he's only been getting 3 hours of sleep per night lately. I woke up this morning to a receipt email from the bar across town for beers at 11pm. So, without waking him up I go searching for my wallet because he used my card to pay. I search his jacket and find a new pack of cigarettes. The strongest unfiltered kind.
Now, my husband told me he quit smoking aside from the occasional bumming one from a coworker. So there's that. Not to mention how it can effect sperm count and we've been TTC for 14 months now. But Ive also expressed that it weirds me out that he sneaks out after I'm in bed.
I feel like he's untrustworthy because every time he does this and I ask why he came to bed late he lies and says he just passed out on the couch. He lies to me about this stuff and other little stuff ALL THE TIME. And I've expressed countless times that if he were just open and honest then I wouldn't be nearly as upset and let down.
What would you feel in this situation?
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