When me and my husband first started dating things were wild, sex wise that is. Pushing me on the bed, asserting dominance, going hard, pulling hair, THE best! But things are kinda down now and it's just the usual stuff. I get on him and ride, bam. That's it. I was just thinking earlier about how things were and I told him a long time ago that one of my fantasies are being submitted. Like tied down and not really abused but rough sex. I love him with all my heart I love it when we make love. But a girl still likes to get down and rough once in a while right?(; he said he's been lazy lately. I just want to be rough and wild again. I mean, it's just us! He was telling me a couple of years ago with a girl he had sex with he said it was I guess rough enough to break her headboard, I want that. Like one night stand where feelings and shit don't matter just crazy rough sex. You know? Or am I being too weird? Also I've had my shares of meaningless sex in my past.