My fiance and i have been together for 9 years and we have a 4 year old. Im ready for baby number 2 and i dont think he is. We use the withdrawal method and im sick of it lol. Its just annoying that he cums on me after we have sex. I feel that since we've been together for 9 years that he doesnt need to do that anymore. I told him that, but he still does it like hes paranoid, but our son was concieved by pull out method.