i need some answers

so 2 years ago i had sex and the guy didnt "pop my cherry" but then like 6 months ago my boyfriend at the time fingered me and i bled, so i thought he "popped my cherry" but last night i had sex and i bled, i dont know why cause i thought my "cherry" had been popped but he was really big so im thinking that had something to do with it? i just need some answers lol