Girls there's so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn't want you. There's a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering who you are without hoping somebody will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn't have to be painful or make you feel empty. You need to fill yourself up with love not anybody else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with your friends, wander around the city at night, sit in the coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others & smile a lot. Do all things with love but don't romanticise life like you can't live without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn't any less beautiful I promise :) x