Today started out beautiful having a nice time with my husband, until a trip to the grocery store ruined it all.

Now, firstly my husband and I both work full time. I work at a daycare, and he's a taxi driver. We still struggle even with the money we make to get by (which is really sad for as hard as we work and try) so we receive food stamps (we were automatically signed up with our health insurance ).

So today, we decided to pick up a couple sandwich things at the grocery store for lunch. It was nice out and it was our day off. We had about $20 still left on our food card. We get to the check out and the lady was beyond rude. Practically yelling at us over some sale mistake with buy one get on free juice at first. Then, for some reason our food card was declined. So the cashier pulls out the receipt and practically yells in our faces (with a huge line of people behind us) "you only have 36 cents!!! You need to put your food back if you can't pay for it!!" So my husband and me had had enough obviously and just left empty handed. It was embarrassing. And the lady was rude. And I'm pregnant, so as soon as we get to the car I just started bawling.

Now my husband just recently had 16 teeth removed from his moth so he hasn't been feeling the greatest either. And this past week has been stressful from taking care of him with that too. He's generally super sweet and understanding and not mean at all. But today, when I was crying from the store experience in the car, he got upset and told me to stop and that I had nothing to cry about. About how I had now ruined our day by crying and over reacting. And when I said the lady upset me plus I'm hormonal he said I needed to stop over reacting and using being pregnant as an excuse all the time.

Is he right? Was I over reacting? Or what? Cuz I didn't feel that I was. And I definitely felt I had plenty reason to cry right in that moment...